There will be some fundraisers coming up for my grandsons soon. My oldest grandson is now 4 years old. He doesn't know there is anything wrong with him, and so far, has not asked questions or indicated that he feels different from the other boys. However, if he attends a fundraiser for himself and his little brother, I'm sure he is going to be aware that this is all about them. I don't think it would be a good time to start answering questions while he's at the fundraiser, but since, he's never questioned anything, do his Mom and Dad bring it up before hand and explain things to him. Would it just be best to have him not attend. I would certainly like to know if other parents have run into this same situation where there child has attended fundraisers in their honor before they were aware of their disorder and before they started asking questions about it.