My husband is actually my kids stepfather and he's an absolutely wonderful Dad and NEVER refers to the kids as his stepkids, he tells everyone that they are his. But my son Avery has a father that sees him off and on when he feels like it and tonight was his father's weekend with him and after five hours, I had to go pick him up because his father couldn't handle him. Apparently, Avery wasn't able to sleep on the couch because he wasn't comfortable and his father told him that if he got him out of bed again he was going to get mad. Avery is 10 and his DMD has him sleeping in the fetal position and soft places like couches and thick mattresses are like quicksand for him, he gets stuck and can't sleep. Does anyone out there have problems with their boys Dads who don't live with them?