It's a shame in this country of the USA that parents of special needs children need to fight so hard to get the education that our children deserve & need. Sounds like you been through alot as well. God Bless, Suzanne
I will get as much information as I can & get back to you asap. I can't believe they would not give your other son the services he needed based on the fact he never had services before. That makes me so angry. Talk to you soon.
To be honest I don't know either. I was introduced to a group by a friend who had gone to one regarding her son. The advocate group I go to here in Buffalo is called Agapa. I could ask them how to find one in your area if you would like? I know your a teacher by trade, but I think an advocate group would be very helpful to you. Parents don't know all the educational laws that are out there & who has time to read all that. I will get this info for you. Maybe even Jill Anne Castle could tell you what steps to take, I don't know. God Bless, Suzanne
Not sure on the date for spring 2011, but this year they ended on June 24th I believe, take a day or two. It doesn't get hot around here until the last week of June so it's not so bad. Ever since I can remember school always started after Labor Day. Labor Day weekend is a big holiday in Buffalo, we consider it our last summer weekend. I don't blame you for being nervous, but just ask questions where needed & always make yourself available to speak with in other words a hands on Mom/parent. That way they know you care & above all are keeping an eye on him & them his educators. Have you gottn in touch with an advocate group?
He was in a Summer School program that ended August 13th. The new school year starts up September 8th for him. His brother & sister start September 7th. In Buffalo they start school after Labor Day. Is Brian all set for school?
The bottom line is that your husband & mother-in-law just might not be in the same place that you are right now. Give it some time & keep educating yourself & doing what you feel is right for your son, yourself & your family & I'm sure they will both come around. Hope I helped. God Bless :)
Sorry to hear about your struggle with your husband & mother-in-law. Me & my husband went through our denile as well, took me less time to accept the diagnosis than my husband Steve. He still struggles with the diagnosis, but has come a long way. He did not go to appointments for a long time & I have taken that roll on more than him, but last summer he went with me to Cincinnati's Children's Hospital Medical Center for a few days of appointments & I think he learned alot about himself & Francis I guess what I'm saying is he is trying to cope with it.