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Brian Denger replied to Tracey Daniel's discussion For those of you who travel out of state for neurologists (Wong, etc)
"Hi Tracey,As Keith stated, the type of health insurance plan covering your family/son will be the factor whether you need a referral or not.  Even if you do not need a referral, speak with a plan administrator or case manager about such things…"
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Brian Denger replied to Jonathan's discussion Pamidronate therapy also known as Aredia
"Dear Paula,  I am truly sorry learning your three sons have DMD.  My two sons were affected and we recently lost my older son at age 20.  My younger son is 18 and still strong.  Please urge your clinic/physicians to take a…"
Apr 20

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Brian Denger commented on PPMD's blog post Duchenne: An Intergenerational Issue
"Thank you Gail and Anita for your tireless efforts on behalf of your family...this family.  Like most, the invitation to join must have been lost in the mail, so it was assumed you'd want to enter the world of DMD.  Yet, unlike many…"
Apr 17
kimmy watters commented on Brian Denger's blog post Remembrance
"  hey brian am very sorry for your loss, has  it been hard to cope. my family is dealing with  cancer a cousin and she is not going into resmisson. kimmy"
Mar 23

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Brian Denger posted a blog post

Remembrance

I’m at the point where I can understand Stockholm Syndrome which is where a hostage or captive develops a bond with their captor. For many years I’ve been held in the grips by Duchenne muscular dystrophy and I’m not implying that I have any fondness for the disorder, the opposite is more accurate. More simply said, it is when you become accustomed to doing things a certain way or are adjusted to a particular ‘normal’ any change in your life or routine is unwelcome. I learned many things…See More
Mar 22

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Brian Denger replied to Archana's discussion School issue....
"Please ask your school to provide an "in service" training session to be provided by the district's physical therapist on appropriate transfers.  They may need an aide or paraprofessional to make the transfers instead of…"
Mar 20

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Brian Denger replied to danielle's discussion our boys
"Dear Danielle and Evelyn,I am the father of two young men who have DMD.  I recently lost Matthew at age 20 and Patrick is well at age 19.  Matthew was very active and a happy young man with many friends.  Patrick also is busy and has…"
Mar 15

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Brian Denger replied to Keith & Jill VE's discussion Counseling for our boys
"Hello Keith and Jill. Each child is different.  Some boys with DMD accept what's happening without question while others are not satisfied with any explanation their parents or other trusted person may provide.  Being supportive,…"
Mar 14

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About me:
I am the father of two sons who have DMD. I am very involved with PPMD in the effort to education and help families living with DMD.
About my family:
My wife is Alice and we have a daughter, Rachel, and two sons, Matthew and Patrick. We live in Maine
Name(s) of child(ren)/individual(s) with Duchenne:
Matthew and Patrick
Age(s) of child(ren)/individual(s) with Duchenne:
13-18
City:
Biddeford

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Remembrance

Posted on March 22, 2013 at 8:36pm 1 Comment

I’m at the point where I can understand Stockholm Syndrome which is where a hostage or captive develops a bond with their captor. For many years I’ve been held in the grips by Duchenne muscular dystrophy and I’m not implying that I have any fondness for the disorder, the opposite is more accurate. More simply said, it is when you become accustomed to doing things a certain way or are adjusted to a particular ‘normal’ any change in your life or routine is…

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Running for our sons

Posted on January 8, 2013 at 3:00pm 1 Comment

This is the week I am supposed to rest, relax and store up a bit of glycogen. That formula is in every runner’s training plan along with the advice to load up on carbohydrates and I should follow that advice.  Sunday I run the Disney Marathon along with other families and friends participating in this race as well…

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Sunday afternoons

Posted on December 4, 2012 at 9:15pm 1 Comment

Sunday afternoons were special to me as a young boy.  Time moved slowly and the only limits were the ends of my imagination fueled by the most recent western I was watching.  The good guys wore white hats and men protected women and children from attacks by circling covered wagons.  I miss the simplicity of a child’s world and the certainty of solutions that came by following a specific formula. 



Like all kids, I wanted to grow up quickly, failing to realize what I had to give up…

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Facing reality

Posted on October 22, 2012 at 8:00am 4 Comments

1997 may not seem so long ago, but at times it feels like half a lifetime to me. That was the year my family learned Matthew’s motor difficulties were something physical therapy could not correct and the first time we heard the word Duchenne. Everyone’s world changes after diagnosis of a devastating chronic illness and…

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Protecting family caregivers from employment discrimination

Posted on October 4, 2012 at 11:00am 0 Comments

When I was young, I remember my parents saying that “ignorance is bliss”. I never liked that expression and it has become more relevant for me when I speak with parents who have children affected by Duchenne muscular dystrophy who are trying to navigate educational or health care systems. Parents are often…

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At 2:43pm on November 8, 2012, Sif Hauksdóttir said…

I came across your blog. If i may ask how old are your sons? I have 2 sons with DMD, aged 2 and 3, they are very different and i am sure that they will be affected differently, are your sons very diffrent ?

At 12:49pm on November 11, 2011, Ofelia Marin said…

Hi Brian, I do not doubt the fact that bone development and growth are related to DMD. There are several studies one looking at more than 100 boys showing that they are shorter than their siblings. However, they are not as short as the boys on steroids. We all know that stunted growth and osteoporosis are side effects of the steroids, no one doubts that. The point I wanted to make is that having a boy as short as the boys today, after years and years of steroids, can easily make them obese. On contrary, if my son is 5'6" due to DMD and not 4'6" due to "DMD+steroids" (I am 5'8" and my husband is 6'5") he can easily have a normal weight for height. Obesity causes many other problems not even mentioning the cardiovascular ones. Steroids are the gold standard of care because we do NOT have anything else to compete with them. Every doctor I talked to agrees with the fact that they have serious side effects and that we need to find a replacement therapy minimizing these side effects if possible. I am sorry that I cannot accept the status quo and blame Duchenne for every single thing that makes my son different. Some things are related and some things are not. I am not going to ignore the serious side effects and just say that it's Duchenne. The fact that we do not have a better alternative does not mean that we should just say, it's fine, he would have been shorter anyway due to DMD. He would have been shorter but NOT as short, not overweight, insuline resistant, puberty delayed or having bone density of a 80 yo woman at age 10. I also do not accept the fact that we are told that height does not matter, as they lose ambulation anyway. I guess I still hope that the future will be different and at some point during the next few years we will not be told that it doesn't matter and we will have better alternatives. And don't even get me started about the fact that many parents tell us from the start that our boys will have cognitive problems. I lost the first years of my son't life searching for these problems, thinking that he should have some. My son doesn't have ANY of them. Neither do many of my friends sons. I think that it is time to look at each of our boys individually and not try to put them in the same bucket only because they have Duchenne. The fact that they have a certain mutation in the same gene doesn't mean that they will be similar in all aspects. I think that it is time to tell parents of young boys that they can excel academically, have friends, develop just like any other non DMD boy. My son and many of my friends sons are real proof of that. Ofelia 

At 10:51am on November 11, 2011, Jeferson Marques Machado said…

Hello, my name is Jefferson and DMD have, as I do to be able to talk to you? Excuse my way of speaking but I need to talk to someone who can help me. I am new to this networking site and do not know how to use it perfectly.

At 12:46pm on November 10, 2011, Ofelia Marin said…

Brian, All studies I looked at suggest "shorter" stature (some suggest 6 cm shorter than non DMD siblings, others -1 SD etc.) but not to the level where the boys fall off the charts. Almost all DMD boys today fall off charts after a certain age. The studies also note that GH deficiency is not Duchenne related, neither is delayed puberty or insulin resistance. I am sorry to say that I still do not believe most of the things mentioned are due to Duchenne itself (the data does not show that) and we certainly do know that they are steroid side effects. I think scientists should focus on approving a replacement to steroid treatment (Eric Hoffman's company is "working" on one for a while now) so our boys can have average height and normal weight. There is a big difference when you have 140lbs on a 4'6" frame vs. a 5'6" frame. Obese vs. normal weight for height.

At 10:45am on July 1, 2011, Bill Reynolds said…

Hi Brian,

I hope you and your family are well. I lost yours and a bunch of other email addresses when converting from one system to another, so I wanted to leave a quick note to see if we can catch up briefly before the Connect Conference. The interview study has come a long way since the last conference, and if you have a few minutes I can send you some notes on ideas I'd like to emphasize in the talk I'm giving this year. You can email me at william.reynolds@stockton.edu.

 

Look forward to catching up. Thanks.

 

Bill

At 12:43pm on April 18, 2011, Paul Johnson said…
I hope you had a good run today.
At 6:10am on February 19, 2011,
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Brian Denger
said…
Hi Penny,

Without seeing Caleb most doctors will not comment even hypothetically. If possible make an appointment with Ron Victor at Cedar Sinai in LA. Some doctors have more experience in DMD. It is sad your current doctor's staff are being strict "gate keepers. Caleb may need monitoring
to learn/know what is going on.

Best of luck,

Brian
At 2:55pm on February 16, 2011, Penny Hauer said…
Brian  I need alittle help here. Ca just does have a good community for duchennes yes they have Drs who are great in their  field however not thejourney our boys are taking Caleb age 10 is having troubles with heart beats he comes to me feel my heart what happens is it jumps from 55 to 120 and goes back and e something different why would I you are not up on the duchforth his lips are colorless it lasts 5 to 15 mins ok on with heart montor called in ou say that this boy is scared  ok dr said we can do the test again well unless you havtwo events but the tec. said do not call the dr as this does not fall in the numbers the dr wants so I call the dr who says tell me not to worry its nothing so I ask why would I you said not to worry in Fla a family said they start on mrds at age 10.the cardo Dr is at childrens in san diego what do I do where do I go help me please  Penny
At 1:19pm on July 10, 2010, Janine said…
We are leaving Monday for our trip. I learned that there was a lay over in Atlanta both ways so I was even more concerned about the chair. I ended up contacting the MDA here and they in turn contacted MDA in NYC. They found us a loaner power chair that they made arrangements to drop off at our hotel and then pick up after we leave. My son would rather have his own chair as it has elevated and recline but for a week he'll make due and it gives us peace of mind.
At 11:22pm on May 5, 2010, Janine said…
Brian,

In a post some time back you mentioned that you don't take your son's power chairs when travelling. I wondered why? We are going on a trip to NYC this summer and he just got his first powerchair in March and wanted to take it on his trip. I started to worry about how it would be treated by the airline personel? I assume they take it and store it with the luggage. Being that they are so pricey I would hate for it to get damaged.

Any feedback would be appreciated.

Thanks,
Janine
 
 
 

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