Hi Mary. I wish parents would talk more on this site as we alwasy want to talk about our sons but it seems others just go on with their lifes and somehow forget, maybe not forget but not in the for front of their thoughts any longer. Its been over 5 years now since Erich died, and I wish it got easier but it doesn;'t. It gets tolerable where I can put the aching, horrrific pain just below the sur…