Our son Dalton is going from ambulatory to non ambulatory very quickly. We don't know what to do. Right now we are standing him from his chair and lifting him to the toilet and back and also to bed. Our apartment is small so i dont know about medical lifts. He is 11. Someone at children's told us pull-ups are an option but where do you go to change him when your out in public? What I need is someone willing to have a no nonsense discussion with me about these issues. Also, we cant find day care that will take him so my wife is forced to stat at home. Dalton gets SSI but are there other programs that can help? we are in Texas. What about home health aids and Medicaid? again, we're in real need. God bless.