My son is has BMD and is going into the second grade. He does not have an IEP. He is still very strong. Last year his teacher had some behavior and social concerns. In general she said it seemed like he just didn't want to be at school. He does have some anxiety. We are currently having him tested through a private psychologist. He also has trouble with computer tests. He was scoring really low on the literacy test (but I knew my son could read better than what the computer test was showing) and when the teacher finally gave him a paper test he scored several levels better. He is easily frustrated and will shut down very easily. He will refuse to do things that make him "nervous" or that he views as hard. He needs a non threatening environment and responds well to "wins". His teacher last year called several meetings but did not recommend an IEP. Mostly, I think, because his grades are pretty good. I did find out that anything that is diagnosed by our private psychologist does not "count", if you will, until the school psychologist does testing (which have never been ordered). Do you think I should demand an IEP?