I have 2 other kids and know that this is very normal. Normal unless your some has DMD and is on Deflaz. He was invited to a birthday party today for the 1st time. He is so excited and I am terrified because Kian is prone to outbursts. Loud outbursts. I want him to go, but should I forelorn the parents when I do? He has promised not to, but I have nothig to compare it to.